.11 Months? when did that happen?.

Our Wee Bud is almost 11 months old. 11 months old tomorrow. Which means she's almost one year old. One year old in a month and a day.

When did this happen??

Our little girl is not so little anymore. She finally started gaining weight steadily at six months and is now in the healthy upper twenty percentile for weight. She's crawling quickly, babbling constantly and eating whatever we offer. And a few things which we don't...

Oh yes, and we're pregnant again. And Captain received a much-deserved promotion. And we bought a townhouse. And a dog. And a minivan. And did I mention that we are pregnant again? All of that took place in the span of eight weeks. What a wonderful whirlwind.

With this second pregnancy, I was just as sick for the first trimester as I was when pregnant with Wee Bud. It seems to last forever but in truth it's only about six weeks of really intense nausea and vomiting and then it tapers off after 12 weeks to just occasional, random darts to the bathroom to lose whatever could possibly be offending the little life inside of me.

Another little life. I'm being given the gift of co-creating once more. It's an honor for which, now that I'm no longer weak-willed and puking, I am incredibly grateful. Captain was very gracious during the six weeks as he listened to my repeated bemoaning that I could never, ever, do this again and he'd better decide what gender he wanted and be praying hard cause this was never, ever going to happen again. And I meant it too. Funny enough, we're now at 14 weeks and I'm back to being fine with however many children God should choose to give us.

I don't see how Wee Bud could know what is going on seeing as how she still has lap room, but ever since we became pregnant she has become more snuggly. I am not minding it.

Last night we met with our doulas and are delighted to have them partner with us on this journey. One of our doulas is actually the nurse from our birth story who has become a very dear friend. It was a text from her (during the six weeks of "never-again"ing) that gave my heart the courage to assert my desire to attempt a VBAC. You may or may not understand this feeling, but after our birth experience with Wee Bud it was tempting to not even dare hope. To just schedule the cesarean and a pedicure and not face the possibility of hope, expectation, disappointment, failure and loss. Speaking with the doulas last night, I realized that there is a part of my heart which, much like my abdomen, bears a scar from our experience. No, it's not an open wound. There has been, by God's grace, a healing. We are praying and believing that the uterine scar will be a place of strength and not weakness. Now I am praying that the scar on my heart and emotions will be the same. Thankfully, these wonderful ladies (not to mention my amazing Captain) are on board with helping me process through whatever emotions may rise to the surface as we continue on this journey. Though I haven't blogged in a while, I realize that this journey may be similar to paths that others may find themselves on. Consider this blog and the random posts to come as broken twigs. I can't tell you that the way I will take (or have taken) is the right way - but as I travel on, I'm sure hindsight will offer a lot to ponder over.

So there you go. We're pregnant. I have a dog sleeping at my feet and an almost one year old napping upstairs. The laundry is going and dinner is planned. The windows are open and I spent a little time in the sun. Life is not perfect, but on days like this, I don't think I could ask for anything more perfect for me.